“Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” (Psalms 139:23-24 AKJV)
This is a good prayer to pray. Take time to pray.
“Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips.” (Psalms 141:3 AKJV)
We need to ask the Lord to guide us in the words that we use.