From retired accountant to uninvited inspector
Dear Annie: My 72-year-old father retired from his accounting job two years ago and appointed himself “Director of Operations” of my household. He lives 15 minutes away and stops by unannounced at least three times a week. He’s reorganized my garage (“Your shelving system was illogical”), corrected how my kids load the dishwasher and replaced the batteries in our smoke detectors without asking. Last week, I came home to find he had trimmed our hedges because they were “inviting rodents.” He insists he’s “just helping.” My wife is annoyed but tries to stay polite. ...